How to realize you are just a fuck buddy. Before the twelve o'clock hour comes, he calls. In this moment, your frown becomes a smile with the sound of his voice. Your mind races with thoughts of intimacy as familiar words fall from his lips. Within minutes the deal is sealed. He is on the way to pick you up like a prince coming to get his princess. This story sounds so rewarding but I have to skip to the end. As you wake up, there he is getting dressed ready to take you back home. No calls for a whole week and then you repeat the same scenario. All of this can be avoided by learning to say no. If this scenario has been going on for a while just know he has someone else. Also, understand that it will never get better. There is no moment that he will suddenly realize that you are good for him. Your power is in saying the word, "no." Don't waste your time on potential because he is not even thinking about you in that way. He may even say he likes you or hint at love. Ho